There is a fairy tale we are all familiar with. A young LGBT person struggles silently with their identity. It’s a battle, a journey, a heroic epic filled with gut wrenching pain and daring feats of self-exploration and acceptance. Eventually the protagonist of our story comes to that climax moment known as “Coming Out” - they tell everyone who they really are. Maybe there is glitter and rainbows and “Born This Way” by Lady Gaga playing in the background. Everything after that is supposedly Pride festivals and happy endings. They beat the dragon of heteronormative society. They did it. The struggle is over.